Parents' rights and obligations after divorce: custody, maintenance and visitation

parents' obligations after divorce

Parental divorce can have a significant impact on children, and the process of establishing custody, child support and visitation arrangements is crucial to ensuring a balance in their lives. 

In this article, we will explore the rights and obligations of parents after divorce, to understand how to manage these issues fairly and in the best interests of the children.

What is custody after divorce?

Custody is the process of determining which parent has primary responsibility for the child. In Romania, there are two types of custody:

Joint custody

In the case of joint custody, both parents have equal rights and obligations as regards the upbringing, education and care of the child. This is the option favored by the law as being in the best interests of the child.

  • Both parents make important decisions for their child, such as school choice or medical treatment.
  • The child spends time with both parents, usually time-sharing.

Single custody

In sole custody, only one parent has primary responsibility for the child, with the other parent having visitation rights and, in some cases, the right to make major decisions in the child's life.

  • Sole custody can be awarded to a parent if the court considers it to be in the best interests of the child.
  • Sole custody is usually awarded to the parent who is the most emotionally and financially stable.

How is custody determined in court?

If the parents fail to reach an agreement on child custody, the court will intervene to make a decision in the best interests of the child. The court will look at several factors, including:

  • The child's relationship with each parent: The court will assess the child's emotional bond with each parent.
  • Parents' emotional and financial stability: The court will take into account the ability of the parents to provide a stable environment for raising the child.
  • Child's age and needs: The child's age and physical and emotional needs are important factors in the court's decision.

A parent's child support obligations

If the parents are separated, the parent who does not have custody of the child may be obliged to pay child maintenance. Maintenance is set by the court and the amount depends on several factors.

How is child maintenance calculated?

The court will set the amount of child support according to the income of the parent who has to pay child support and the needs of the child.

  • Parent's income: Child maintenance is calculated as a percentage of the parent's monthly net income.
  • Child needs: Alimony is calculated taking into account the age of the child, the expenses necessary for the child's upbringing (education, medicines, etc.).

The court will also consider the possible financial capacity of the parent paying child support.

Maintenance payments and subsequent changes

  • Maintenance payments are made monthly and failure to pay can lead to legal sanctions.
  • If the parent's financial situation or the child's needs change, the court may modify the amount of child support.

Visiting hours: Rights of the non-custodial parent

If the court orders custody of only one parent, the other parent will have the right to a child visitation schedule. This schedule can be agreed between the parents or set by the court.

How is the visiting program set up?

  • Flexibility and best interests of the child: The visiting schedule should be tailored to the child's needs and should not interfere with the child's daily routine, such as school or extracurricular activities.
  • Time spent with each parent: The court may establish a visitation schedule in which the child spends a balanced amount of time with each parent, taking into account their distance and availability.

Respecting the visit program

It is important that the parents respect the court-or mutually agreed visitation schedule. If one parent does not respect this schedule, the other parent can ask the court to intervene to enforce it.

What if there is no agreement between parents?

If parents cannot agree on custody, child support or visitation, the court will decide in the best interests of the child. It is essential that parents work together and understand that the best interests of the child must come first.

Protecting children's and parents' rights

After divorce, the rights and obligations of parents in terms of custody, child support and visitation are essential to ensure a harmonious upbringing for the child. 

It's important to work with a family law attorney to understand the process and protect your and your child's interests. The court will make decisions based on the child's needs and the parents' ability to provide a stable and healthy environment.